On tumblr my friend Courtney (whom I've been friends with for years on multiple websites) has an ask box, usually I say good morning to her and start a conversation. Of course today she goes and decides to be on bitch mode. So I go to her ask box and ask her why she's up so early, she says work. Then I say I'm lonely. Then she says everyone is. This angers me because of her obvious bitchiness.
She posts this on facebook:
If I wanted to be a therapist, I would have gone to school for it. For one day, I don't want to hear a single problem from anyone.
I noticed :/
Yep. Sorry. I get sick of people bogging ME down when they really could, I don't know, try dealing with their own problems instead.
Okay the way to deal with my problems is talking about it with my friends. It doesn't make it go away and it doesn't change it it just makes it easier to suffer through. Also if you want to be a bitch today go right ahead I don't care, I'll do us both a favor and stay out of your way.
Sounds like you DO care. Just saying. I just don't get why EVERYONE, not just you, decides I should be the one to deal with their shit instead of working through it for themselves. How fucking unfair is that? I'm not a therapist, I don't aspire to be one and I don't want more stress when, really, the problems have nothing to do with me. Yep, it's selfish, but so is running to other people every single time something comes up.
You don't know how to be a friend.
Erin, please do me a favor and shut the fuck up.
Actually back 4 comments ago I was done with this conversation but you wanted to keep going.
Yeah, it's not fair to ask one person to deal with everyone's problems all the time. They need a break sometimes too.
Erin: You didn't even need to comment at all. Just saying.
Cortney: Exactly. I am so bogged down with my own stress (like people tend to do at times) that I don't want to deal with anyone else for one measly day. I don't think that is too much to ask.
See you're still keeping the conversation going.
(the red type is one of her random friends)